Friday 22 February 2013

人生智慧33句好文



不要去欺騙別人, 因為你能騙到的人,都是相信你的人。(賈伯斯Steve Jobs)

1.The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing.Growing happens when what you know changes how you live.
獲得知識並不意味者成長。只有當我們把得到的知識用在去改變自己的人生,這才叫成長。

2.Change is often resisted when it is needed the most.
最抗拒的改變往往也是最亟需的改變。

3.Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want right now.
所謂嚴以律己,就是選擇你最想要的,而非當下就想要的。(好比一個人一直想要存到100萬,但卻無法克制血拼的衝動與慾望)

4.People seldom do things to the best of their ability.They do things to the best of their willingness.
很少有人盡全力做事;通常是看自己願不願意而已。(非不能也,實不為也)

5.You can’t change other people;you can only offer guidance,and lead by example.
我們不可能改變其他人;我們只能提供導引,同時提供過往的案例讓他們自己做決定。(師長父母教育孩子時的準則)

6.Right now,there’s a lot you don’t know.And if you never challenge your own beliefs,the list will never shrink.
此時此刻,有太多我們不知道的世間事。如果我們不挑戰自己的信仰,不知道的事只會越來越多。

7.If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well,you may be talking to someone who knows way more about the topic of conversation than you do.
當我們跟不熟的人聊天時,在聊的話題,對方很有可能知道的比我們多太多。

8.The most common and harmful addiction in the world is the draw of comfort.
最常見但也是最害人不淺的癮頭是安逸。

9.Growth begins at the end of your comfort zone.Stepping outside of your comfort zone will put things into perspective from an angle you can’t grasp now.
成長始於離開自己的舒適圈。踏出舒適圈會讓我們以一個全然未曾體驗過的新角度去體驗事物。(這就是我之所以認為獨自旅行是人生之必要的原因)

10.Most of the bad things you worry about will never happen.Most of the bad things that do happen will have never have crossed your worried mind.
大多數你擔心的壞事從來不會發生。大多數的壞事反而是那些你從來不曾想到的事。

11.Some circumstances are uncontrollable,but we can always decide how we react to those circumstances.
有些情況的確無法控制,但是我們可以控制我們如何應對對這些狀況。(90-10 準則)

12.Those who complain the most,accomplish the least.
抱怨最多,成就最少。

13.Whenever somebody discredits you,and tells you that you can’t do something,keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.
當有人看輕你,告訴你不可能成功時,要提醒自己,這些人只是從他們自己能力的極限來預測你的不可能。

14.Every problem you have in your life right now is your responsibility,regardless of who initially caused it.
此刻我們生命中所有遭遇的難題,不管是誰造成的,都該是我們自己的責任。

15.Being busy and being productive are two different things.
窮忙與有生產力是兩回事。

16.The bad news:nothing is permanent.The good news:nothing is permanent.
壞消息是,沒有什麼事永恆不變的,而這同時也是好消息。

17.Problems,when they arise,are rarely as painful and hurtful as the process of fearing them.
問題產生時,沒有什麼比害怕處理問題更痛苦。

18.Confusion isn’t a bad thing.It means you’re growing and thinking.
困惑不是壞事,這意味著我們在成長、在思考。

19.Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
能做,但不代表應該做。(這也是另一種「非不能也,實不為也」)

20.In the beginning,you need to say “yes”to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals.Later on,you need to say “no”to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals.
一開始時,我們必須對很多事情說Yes,這樣才能發掘並且確立目標。接下來我們就必須對很多事情說No,這樣才能專心致志於我們的目標。

21.Even if it doesn’t cost any money,it’s not free if it takes up your time.
即便不用花錢,只要會花時間就不是免費的了。(時間成本的重要)

22.Screaming at people always makes things worse.
對人吼叫只會讓事情更糟。

23.When you’re up,your friends know who you are.When you’re down,you know who your friends are.
當你發達時,朋友都知道你是何許人物;而當你失敗時,可以很輕易看清你的朋友是怎樣的人。

24.If someone wants you in their life,they’ll make room for you.You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
真正希望有我們在人生中相伴的人,一定會挪出空間給我們的。我們沒有必要去極力爭取。

25.We rarely lose friends,we usually just figure out who our real ones are.
我們鮮少失去朋友。我們只是弄清楚什麼是真正的朋友。

26.Good looks attracts the eyes.Personality attracts the heart.
好看的外表吸引目光,可敬的人格吸引心腸。

27.If you aren’t happy being single,you won’t be happy in a relationship.You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
如果單身時不快樂,戀愛時也不會快樂的。一定要有自己獨特的生活方式,才能與另一半分享。

28.Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.
生命何其短,不該花時間在那些取走你幸福的人身上。

29.Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak,sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go.
放棄不意味著你是弱者,有時代表你得夠堅強,夠聰明才知道放棄。

30.Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
有時得站遠一點才能看清事物的真面貌。

31.You can’t make the same exact mistake twice.The second time you make it,it’s no longer a mistake,it’s a choice.
我們不會同一個錯誤犯第二次,因為第二次再犯時,就不是個錯誤了;那是選擇。

32.Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
得不到時,未嘗不是種幸運。

33.Blowing out another’s candle will not make yours shine brighter.
吹熄別人的蠟燭並不會讓自己的生命之燭更耀眼。

Thursday 7 February 2013

**精华** 爱要及时,说出口的爱,才是爱。。


    说来也好笑,我们一直认为自己是在为对方着想,以自己的方式去体贴对方,这种自以为是却导致了无数个阴错阳差,一直到我开始怀疑自己不爱他,他也不爱我了,才惊觉这份爱并不是消逝,而是溶入了生活之中,自然的让人忘了它的存在。

爱情的表现,可以是黏腻、亲热、奉献、祝福,甚至是退让,每个人的方式不同,会导致的结果各异。

   我的方式是盲目的付出,他的方式是全然的关怀,乍看之下两个人都没错,可是无论什么方式,中间少了一种叫「沟通」的元素,就容易导致裂痕。

   
女人会因男人长久的冷落而对爱情失望,也可以因男人一句话又对爱情充满希望,

   我不想和他离婚,一点儿也不想,当初硬着头皮签下名,或许只是赌气,只是要他正眼看看我


我们的婚姻,就是建筑在这种缺乏沟通的空中楼阁之上,嫁给这个男人五年了,我以为我渐渐的不爱他,但只是一番简单的剖白心意,我对他所有的爱再度复活,甚而转浓


我们可以开创新的回忆,只要有我也有他,什么时间地点都不成问题。

结婚五年,我又发现了一次爱情。

Tuesday 5 February 2013

REMEMBER THE TIME..


** Got it from some where.. **
is nice thou...
change a bit and share with the person who care =)
Remember the time
when we sat across each other
which seemed like a thousand feet away
forbidden to be together
The time Just stop tat the very moment.
all seen to be right ..and seen like nothing gonna change .
Eternity.. Dream .. Future.. A home together ** is once Our AIM together.


Remember the time
we blew kisses and threw hearts
Hold Each other tight enough to make u breathless..
 Holding ur head and kiss on ur forehead to tell me U r mine.
we were far, but never really apart*
and Once I believe no1 and nothing will gonna make us apart.
no1 nothing.. yet being something and some1 taking over.
THou all this is hard.. but nothing will gonna chance..
and I still believe after some time.. and some 1 passed..
we will still be the 1 who r right for 1 another.
at that time Rili no 1 / nothing will make us apart..
tat is truely together =)


Remember the time
when you and Me lie on the Sandy Beach in the middle of the night
In our hearts, we hope that it will be forever.
and we believe we will make it.
thou, we both knw it will nt be easy and there is challenge ahead.
the Promise we made..
the word  u said.. will always right there in 1 corner of my heart.
no 1 can change.. no 1 can move me..
no 1 can touch me as u do.. * u r the onli 1 ..
the special 1 that never fail to make me Laugh and Cry..
It is so so true.. yet so so pain..
but yet, time told me it is time for me to wake up..and Move on>>
perhaps tat the best for both of us



Maybe 1 day .. we will meet and or even be together again* 
but For now ..I will work for my dream..make my promise to u and Myself.. 
COme TrUe.. Let u Believe in Promise.
as u always said dn make a promise tat u cannot make it. 
BUt I wanna let u knw tat ..
A Promise is A PROMISE .
Time will Flies..
It will prove <3 
2 hearts will never being apart again, tru all the thing happened.
U May Doubt it will never get to be the same.. 
Trust me.. It will.. if we both willing to..
and WITH God Bless ( crossing FINGERS)





( about this 1 ** I dun wanna include it 1..
 But the Coloured word make me rili out of control )


Remember the time
I carried You on a piggyback ride
and Piggy Front ( create by u this G Lui )
 And we kissed 
the moment when we put all rules aside.
all just seen so right.. and so bright.. 
we r truely missing one another.
the Bf and Gf word. r Just not enough to describe us
But yet nw,the COLOURED WORD..
just make me MISS U .. so Badly..** 
B, rili I miss u.. Miss u so so so much..